We are so grateful to celebrate our special day on the beautiful island of Oahu. Hawaii is a place rich with history, culture, and incredible natural beauty. We hope to share in its wonders with you in a way that honors and respects this incredible place.
Malama 'Aina (Care for the Land)
The land in Hawaii is sacred and cherished by those who live here. As you explore the islands, we ask you to practice Malama ‘Aina, or caring for the land, by following these guidelines:
- Minimize Waste: Use reusable water bottles, utensils, and shopping bags. Recycle whenever possible.
- Respect Wildlife: Observe animals from a distance and never feed or disturb them, as this disrupts their natural behavior.
- Use Reef-Safe Sunscreen: Choose sunscreens labeled “reef-safe” to protect Hawaii’s delicate marine life.
- Dispose of Trash Properly: Keep beaches and trails clean by using designated trash and recycling bins.
- Stay on Designated Trails: Protect native plants and prevent erosion by sticking to marked paths.
A Brief History of Hawaii
Hawaii’s story is one of resilience and strength. The islands were first settled by Polynesian voyagers, who navigated thousands of miles across the Pacific Ocean and built a thriving, self-sustaining society with a deep connection to the land and ocean. For centuries, the Hawaiian Kingdom prospered, guided by a rich cultural heritage and a sophisticated system of governance.
However, in 1893, the Hawaiian Kingdom was forcibly overthrown in a coup led by a group of American and European businessmen, with support from the United States government. Queen Liliʻuokalani, Hawaii’s last reigning monarch, was deposed, and the islands were subsequently annexed by the United States in 1898 without the consent of the Native Hawaiian people. Hawaii became the 50th state in 1959.
Despite this painful history, the Hawaiian culture, language, and traditions continue to thrive, carried forward by a proud community dedicated to preserving their heritage.
To learn more about Hawaiian history and culture, you can visit:
A Privilege, Not a Right
Visiting Hawaii is not a right or entitlement—it is a privilege. Though Hawaii was overtaken and eventually annexed, the islands have never truly belonged to outsiders. This land still belongs to the Hawaiian people, and it is crucial to remember that just because we can visit, it doesn’t mean we are entitled to it. Instead, we are given the opportunity to experience Hawaii’s beauty because of the kindness and hospitality of its people.
We ask that you approach this visit with respect, care, and a willingness to learn. Life in Hawaii continues with deep cultural roots, and with humility, you can be part of a positive impact. By supporting local businesses, educating yourself about Hawaiian history, and caring for the natural environment, you can enjoy this beautiful place in a way that honors the people and culture.
Cultural Respect and Supporting the Community
Hawaii is home to a vibrant and proud community, with customs and traditions deeply rooted in the land and history. As you enjoy your visit, we ask that you approach it with cultural respect and awareness. Practice Aloha by showing kindness and patience, whether you’re interacting with locals or fellow travelers. Learn a few Hawaiian words like aloha (love, hello, goodbye) and mahalo (thank you)—these simple gestures can go a long way. When visiting sacred sites, honor them with reverence and follow any posted guidelines to show respect for their cultural significance.
We also encourage you to support local businesses and artisans. Dining at local restaurants, shopping at farmer’s markets, and buying handmade crafts help sustain the community and give you a true taste of Hawaiian culture. Be mindful of cultural appropriation: appreciate Hawaiian traditions by learning about their significance rather than adopting them as fashion or novelty.
We are honored to have you join us in Hawaii, and we hope your experience here is one of awe, respect, and meaningful connection. Mahalo for helping us care for this beautiful place as we come together to celebrate!